I often hear my students say: I wish I could speak English perfectly! Is this a wish on your mind too? So, what's wrong with this wish? Perfection is an illusion. Setting perfection as a goal is like choosing a cloud as your destination. When we just wish for something, we don't set goals or take action. We just sit and wait for a miracle.
What can we do instead?
We can change our 'cloud-like wish' into a 'concrete goal' by changing our thought processes in three steps: